I look at the ways that guys interact with BBW, and I see the core problem as to why so many women reject so many men and cheat on them. Too many men see women as their equals or above them. They all say to themselves "I'm not worthy of this chubby girl, therefore I have to appease her.", or "This girl is my counterpart, therefore I shouldn't try to be too dominating towards her.". And what this does, is absolutely kill any chance that a busty girl will be attracted to these men.
1. Intro
2. How to treat BBW
If treating BBW as if you are above them is what attracts them, then why don't more men do it? Because they have been brainwashed. All of their lives, they have been taught to believe that women are their equals, therefore they behave accordingly. That, and almost everyone who hears the title of this post automatically associates it with abusive men, men who degrade oversized women, and men who never have anything nice to say about them. Men who treat women as if they (men) are above them, but aren't abusive or degrading, tend to get overshadowed by men who are, thus giving all dominant men a bad name.
3. BBW Dating
And let's think about what dominant means: commanding, controlling, or prevailing over all others. You can look it up if you want. When you don't sugar coat it, it basically means that you don't recognize others as your equals, as you are coming from a point of superiority. And what have almost all BBW acknowledged that they are attracted to: dominant men, so don't treat this as something coming from my mouth. This is straight from their own mouths. The only difference is that they label it differently.
4. Chubby Single Women
BBW want to be treated as equals in the workplace. Women want to be treated as equals in institutions. Women want to be treated as equals when you're their friend. However, when it comes to sexual attraction and relationships, busty women do not want to be treated as equals no matter what they tell you. What this means, is that you have to stop treating them as your equals (or above you) when you're approaching them or are in a relationship with them. Your mindset should always be that of "This chubby woman is below me, and I am going to treat her as such.". If you remember to do that, then women will fall for you, regardless of if they understand why.
5. Personals
Again, you shouldn't see it as being abusive, degrading, etc. You should see it more as a father-daughter type deal (jokes aside) where you are in control, but that control doesn't mean that you are abusive or degrading. A father doesn't hit his daughter or call her mean names, but at the same time, he makes it clear that he and his daughter are not on the same level. And this is precisely why a lot of women go for older men. These older men do not treat these younger oversized women as their equals. They make it clear who is in control, and they don't behave as if these girls are goddesses and become all flabbergasted just because they are in their presence.
6 Conclusion
When you're talking to a busty girl, or you are in a relationship with a girl, you have to take a look at your behaviors. Are you behaving like a guy that is below her and doing everything because you think it might make her happy or like you. Or are you behaving like a guy that is always in control, and occasionally doing things to make her happy in the way that a teacher might reward a student, or a father might reward a daughter. You should never behave in a way that makes a chubby woman that you are sexually interested in feel like she is equal to or above you. If she feels like she is your equal or above you, then there will be no attraction felt towards you.